The protagonist, often described by fans as a "people-pleaser par excellence," spends years building a life for everyone else—her career stagnates, her romantic relationships drain her, and her family takes her for granted. The plot kicks off when a personal crisis forces her to realize that being "selfless" has only led to resentment. The book chronicles her messy, non-linear journey to becoming "selfish"—learning to say no, demanding respect, and discovering what she actually wants.
Becoming Selfish often functions as either a prequel, a spin-off, or a bridge novel within her universe. While you can read it as a standalone, you will likely spot cameos from characters in her other books. To fully appreciate the emotional stakes, many fans recommend reading her backlog first, though Becoming Selfish works perfectly as an entry point due to its focused theme on self-growth. Becoming Selfish By Liz Tomforde EPUB PDF