Ms. Hendriks read the last one slowly. “This is the core of it, isn’t it?” she said. “Fear. The bravest thing you can do is be honest. But voorlichtung isn’t just about biology. It’s about lighting the path to that honesty. So here’s your homework: For one week, pay attention to how you feel when you’re around a person you admire. Not what you think you should feel. What you actually feel. Write it down. It’s not a confession. It’s data.”
